Kelly Whiteside
NEWSDAY, May 16, 1999
On Friday, the day the news about their GM's
announcement filtered through
the team, the Liberty went about basketball as
usual. They boarded their team
bus in Manhattan and traveled to West Hempstead
for the first day of training
camp at the Island Garden. They talked about
their GM for about five minutes
and returned to a more pressing issue: earning
a spot on the team roster.
An afternoon earlier, at media day, the last
sentence of Liberty vice
president and general manager
Carol Blazejowski's biography broke new ground
in the homophobic world of sports. In the team
media guide distributed that
day, Blazejowski's bio said that she lives with
Joyce, her partner, and their
two children, Lainey and Luke. Blazejowski is
believed to be the first
executive of a professional sports team to
publicly acknowledge that she is
gay.
None of the players were informed of
Blazejowksi's decision beforehand.
When they heard about the media guide, this
historic moment was simply no big
deal. All the players know Blazejowski's
family. They are at every game. Her
daughter, the cutest red-haired kid in the
Garden, usually finds her way onto
the court to snuggle with Maddie, the
floppy-eared mascot.
While Blazejowski has been open about her
family around the team, Liberty
players were surprised that she decided to
share the news of her personal
life with the rest of the world. It took great
courage given that
Blazejowksi, 42, has one of the most
high-profile jobs in pro sports. The
Hall-of-Famer is a GM in a league driven by
marketing and corporate
sponsorships, a league that loves to promote
its "family
image" and its players who also happen to be
mothers. Come to think of it,
Blazejowski fits that image, albeit in a way
corporate sponsors aren't likely
to embrace.
"Sports for men and women is tremendously
homophobic," said Donna Lopiano,
the executive director of the Women's Sports
Foundation. "There is a great
fear for gays and lesbians that their sexual
orientation will have a negative
affect on sponsorships."
In the deep-closeted world of sports,
secrecy has always been the norm.
While Blazejowski chose not to elaborate on the
reasons why she decided to go
public with her family, clearly it's because
there is nothing to hide. If
coach Richie Adubato can list his wife, three
children and one grandchild in
the media guide, Blazejowski should be able to
mention her loved ones as well.
In a past biography, in that obligatory final
sentence, Blazejowski has
stated that she lives in Nutley, N.J., with her
two dogs. What a relief it
must be to finally fill in the rest of the
family. "I'm glad she has the
confidence and pride to say who she is," said
Liberty forward Sue Wicks.
Though Blazejowski probably doesn't think of
it in these terms, through
this one seemingly small act, she is a pioneer.
Which is really nothing new
for her.
One summer nearly 20 years ago, a few dozen
girls sat on the hardwood
court at Rutgers Athletic Center at coach
Theresa Grentz' basketball camp.
The topic of the day was shooting. We were told
that we would learn from the
master
As Grentz introduced Blazejowski, a
three-time All-America at Montclair
State (N.J.), she talked about Blaze, the
pioneer. In Cranford, N.J., Blaze
forced her high school to implement a girls
team when she threatened to try
out for the boys team. In college, she had to
pay her own way since, at that
time, there were few athletic scholarships for
women.
Blaze picked up the ball. Shots whistled
through the basket from every
angle. Her motion was so fluid, so pure.
Everything Grentz said was true.
That day, a gym full of girls was introduced to
a new role model. Surely, at
all the basketball camps Blaze barnstormed in
over the years, she had the
same impact on hundreds of girls.
To this day, Blaze is still the best shooter
I have ever seen. And still a
pioneer.
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